What if I told you that your impatience is the thief of your dreams?
An extraordinary life, a rich life, a deep life, a life of meaning doesn’t happen overnight.
It takes time.
One of your biggest obstacles in creating the extraordinary will be your impatience.
The impatience is directly tied to the outcome and what you’re making that outcome mean.
It’s a false belief that when you achieve X, then you’ll be happy.
This impatience will thwart your journey; fortunately, there’s an easy solution to work around it.
Having an easy-to-follow and executable plan defeats impatience.
The essentials of an executable plan?
✔️ Clarity: Crystal Clear Clarity on what an extraordinary life means to you.
✔️ Baby Steps: What is the next smallest step you can take towards this?
✔️ Decision: Deciding that you will take this next smallest step. There is an unbelievable amount of energy in making a decision—leverage that energy.
✔️ DCCA: Deliberate, Committed, Consistent Action. Make it real; put it in your calendar. If you miss a day because of unexpected events, give yourself grace and compassion to know that’s ok.
If you skip a day out of fear, give yourself grace and compassion and get curious about what that fear tells you.
✔️ Non-Attachment: Understand that you have an outcome you’re moving towards, but let go of that outcome. Focus on the baby steps, focus on the journey.
Patience will be critical in creating the extraordinary; following the framework above will facilitate that patience.