Keynote Speaker, Author & Reinvention Architect
I’ve been thinking about my pre-prison fears. And I had them wrong. Pre-prison, I had a corporate career and built what would be considered a successful life. The cars, the clothes, the watches, the houses, the status. The truth is, I didn’t like my career; I liked the lifestyle my career afforded me. And I…
It sounds backward, but the more scary things I do, the safer I become. I had this realization a few months ago. It runs counter to everything I’ve thought about my life. Chasing Safety Through Control Before prison, I lived like so many high achievers do, chasing safety through control. Control for me was being…
Perfectionism. The need to be right. Shrinking so I’m not seen. Rehearsing future conversations in my head. For me (and I’m guessing for most), these are protective actions I take to control the situation and, even more so, the outcome. I’ve done all these to varying degrees throughout my life and still to this day.…