Keynote Speaker, Author & Reinvention Architect
Confidence doesn’t create the extraordinary. Creating the extraordinary cultivates confidence. It wasn’t confidence that got me on the TEDx stage. It wasn’t confidence that allowed me to publish my first book. It wasn’t confidence that created my speaking business and my life (which I love). It was self-trust. Let me rewind. Delivering a TEDx, publishing…
So many high-achievers are silently stuck, successful externally but misaligned internally. I know, because I lived that life. Here’s what inauthentic living cost me, and what I learned reinventing from rock bottom. 1st Half For the first half of my adult life, I was living inauthentically. And I didn’t even know it. I had the…
We like to think our lives are shaped by big moments. But in truth, our lives are shaped by small, often invisible decisions—especially the ones we rationalize. We call them little things. A harmless shortcut. A decision no one will ever see. But each of these moments writes a line in the story of who…
I worked in corporate sales years ago. My life was a constant chase. Chase the next deal; chase my quota; chase the next shiny object with the commission earned from that deal. I’d chase my to-do list because it was my self-worth measuring stick. At the end of each day, I’d be spent, exhausted, and…
I said I wanted to create, yet obscured that part of myself. I said I wanted freedom yet handcuffed myself to a lifestyle. I said I wanted simplicity but said yes to “nos,” adding complexity to my life. No wonder life felt “off”. No wonder I never felt comfortable in my own skin. No wonder…
We have 2 lives, but how often do we only breathe life into one of them? What are our two lives? The “Should” Life and Our Authentic Life The “Should” life is as it sounds; it’s all the steps and actions we believe we should be taking. Why? To be happy, successful, fit in, and…